Questions Of Kids or Teenagers
Questions Of Kids Or Teenagers
Nowadays kids and teenagers are very smart. They want answers for everything. Being responsible parents, you have to be positive and give answers to their questions positively. If you want that your children become confident, responsible, and humble too then always try to give positivity to them. Keep the focus on positive things to say to your child. Always avoid transferring negativity towards them.
When they ask many questions from you then try
to share with them words of inspiration and they’ll likely grow into more kind,
responsible, and respectful. For example, if your children or teenager ask a question
from you that is
Why do we obey Allah (GOD)?
There are two answers
Because we are afraid of Allah because if
we did not obey Allah became angry.
OR
Allah gives us punishment.
But the third positive answer which we can
use is:
we
love Allah and whom we love, we obey them and respect them. We build relations but
maintaining that relationship is important, same like that our relation with
Allah is very strong but we have to maintain this. So, Allah loves us and we
love Allah, that’s why we obeyed.
Same as Quran not ask us to “read Namaz (Prayer)” rather in Quran “Offer Prayer (Namaz)”
We obey our parents because we love and
respect them, same as we obey Allah because our relation with Allah is very
strong and we have to maintain it.
Remember, Allah is always close to you than
anyone in this world. Allah is merciful and loves with you than your mother. This
relationship with Allah is beautiful and strong but you have to maintain it.
If we use the Quranic verses to explain the
children which is always a positive method then children can understand better
and positively.
As a parent, we must guide our children in the
most positive way possible. Try to get rid of negative talk or unhelpful
answers due to a lack of patience. Your words can have a powerful positive
impact on the kids’ lives. Your positive words, examples, and stories give them
confidence and self-esteem as well.
Well, always keep trying to become positive
parents and leave the rest On Allah.
By:
Ayesha Tayyab
Lovely keep it up ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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